When choosing a scented candle, you’ve probably experienced a situation where one scent immediately feels warm, soothing, and “right,” while another is off-putting or tiring within minutes. This is not a coincidence or just a matter of taste – science shows that people perceive scents very differently.
1. Every nose is different
There are hundreds of scent receptors in the human nose, and their sensitivity varies from person to person. This means that the same scented candle may be delicate and barely noticeable to one person, but intense or even annoying to another.
Therefore, there is no “universally best” scent. A scent that feels luxurious and pleasant to one person may feel too sweet, sharp, or heavy to another.
2. Sensitivity to smell affects the candle experience
Some people are more sensitive to smells than others. With a higher sensitivity to smell, aromas may be perceived more strongly and intense candles start to dominate the room.
In this case, the following scents are often better suited:
soft, natural notes (e.g. wood, resins, herbs)
3. Memories and emotions play a big role
Scents are directly related to memory. A scented candle can remind you of childhood, nature, travel or, conversely, unpleasant experiences.
This means that the same scent can be safe and soothing for one person, but cause inexplicable aversion for another. This reaction often occurs subconsciously and cannot be “learned”.
4. Culture and habits
Cultural background and daily habits also affect the perception of smells. Some aromas seem familiar and homely, while others seem exotic or foreign. For example, coriander. There has been a scientific study on this and it is believed that some people love it both in cooking and in aromas, and for other people this aroma is already genetically averse to “soap”.
When choosing scented candles, keep in mind that what creates coziness in one home may not suit another person’s space or preferences.
5. Why do some scents quickly become “tiring”?
In addition to the classic sense of smell, the body also reacts to the irritation of scents. If the aroma is too strong, it can cause fatigue, headache or restlessness.
This does not mean that the scent is bad – it just does not suit a particular person or moment.
How to choose the right scented candle for you?
Start with softer and simpler scents
Avoid too strong or “complex” blends if you are sensitive
Give the scent time – first impressions can change
Trust your feeling: if you do not like the smell, it is completely okay
Summary
In the world of scented candles, there are no right or wrong preferences. Why some scents are pleasant and others are not is due to our biology, memory and personal experience.
The best scented candle is the one that creates peace and a good feeling in your space – just for you and not for anyone else.
How to choose the right scented candle for you?
Start with something gentle and soft – if you are more sensitive to scents, light, natural notes are a good choice.
Trust your nose – if a scent doesn’t bring you joy, there’s no need to force it.
Give the scent time – sometimes the notes unfold in a way that you don’t notice at first.
Choose according to the room and mood – softer for the bedroom, richer for the living room.
Buy from manufacturers who use certified, high-quality aroma oils.
